A queer-owned practice dedicated to providing therapy and consultation services with an intentional focus on supporting the LGBTQIA, Poly, and Kink communities

HI, I’m Tosh

I’m a non-binary, queer human and I have been a therapist for almost 20 years (whew!). I aim to show up in life with integrity, compassion, congruence and humor. I know that’s not always possible to do…but hey, I’m going to keep trying!

Here are some other facts you may want to know:

  • I received my M.A. in Marriage & Family Therapy from Syracuse University in 2006; I also received additional training with the SUNY Upstate Medical University Gender Dysphoria team between 2005-2006.

  • I have 20 years of experience that includes over 17,000 hours of direct client contact, with a particular focus on working with the LGBTQIA community.

  • I was published in the Journal of GLBT Family Studies in 2008.

  • I moved to Seattle, by way of Saint Petersburg, Florida and Baltimore, Maryland. I love the challenge of keeping my tropical plants alive and still refuse to buy rain boots.

  • I have so much fun competing in triathlons!

  • My practice is entirely online.

  • I love this work and I can’t wait to connect.

THERAPY

Individual, Relationships & Family

Whether you are seeking therapy as an individual or within a relationship…

I view concerns through a systemic lens.

I believe that we are constantly evolving in relation to ourselves and others, and the context of our relationships impacts the quality of our lives.

RELATIONAL DESIGN

Relational design is a specific approach I use to help personalize the dynamics of your relationship with your partner(s) or co-parents through creativity, collaboration and consent.

Together we can design your uniqe relationship structure that feels safe, secure and ethically serves all members involved.

Check out my Psychology Today profile if you’re interested in knowing more about my therapeutic approach